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Ok my parents r comple *****heads!! I am 14 male and i have needs and they don't let me have my freedom. They are old fashioned so they say no music, no magazines. no movies and onli studies. It kills me! they barely let me go out. my dad only talks about math and my mum only cares about religon, nothing else. They hit REALLY hard and ALOT cuz the're pakistani like me and they get pissed off if i protest. HELP ME! wtf should i do? i'm going insane!!

YOU WILL REGRET THE HURT YOU HAVE CAUSED THEM ONE DAY WHEN YOU STAND OVER THEIR GRAVE AND CAN NOT MAKE IT RIGHT.You need to consider what you do to contribute to the situations you think are so bad. From the sounds of you're comment you add a little bit more than you are willing to admit.You're parents are there to guide you, protect you, love you and shield you from harm. When you are old enough you can move out and do the things you think you have been robbed of doing as a teen. Hopefully by then you will have a better insight as to what is wrong or right.

I feel sorry for you. Run away.

try sking them really nicely for some freedom

I am AFrican American , as are my parents, so I understand the hitting. my advice for you is to just weather the storm. Do as your parents tell you for now. You are only 14, in 3 years you will be off to college and then you can do what you want. 3 years may seem like a long time and you may feel like you can't wait but do your time. Or you can try talking to your parents. Do not come at them as a child. Try to understand why they are asking these things of you. Then I would compare what they are asking of you to what you want and try to compromise.

If they really are hitting you like you say. Then you need to consider CPS( Child Protective Services). Parents really normally do have the best intentions for their children. They see your potential and want you to reach it. I know that right now it is hard to believe, but when you get older you will look back and realize that they did their best. But I will repeat if they are abusing you you need to do something. Do not run away though that will just make them trust you less.

at 14 you are going to get angry at the slightest thing and everything that people say or do. Life isn't easy and your parents being from another culture and age in life were brought up with the same restrictions and maybe their parents were harder on them than they are on you. I screwed up my life years ago and never got to tell my dad that I was sorry for the thing s that I said and did, he died a little over two years ago. Now I understand that this probably doesn't help you any or you may read it and think it's stupid, but, you asked. Have you thought about what you want to eventually do with your life? try using toothpicks or rocks or something that glue will stick to and build things.....when asked why you're doing it? tell them that you've decided to become an architect and you want to know the whys and how's of the building industry.

wtf are you talking about? he didn't do anything to them.when i was a kid i had a similar problem but that was just because my mother didn't want me to know who i was or what my haritage was so i wasn't aloud to listen to anything black, watch anything with black people, other stuff. yeah crazy right.so i got the smallest radio that i could find now that would be an mp3 player, the movies and the magizines i can't help you with unless you can get a psp but i don't think your parents will get you that. another thing is do you draw? that could be another outlet. all you need ar eoutlets. you're a teenager and i know that's hard but keep breathing. you only have 4 more years to deal with it.

If you live in the USA and they are hitting you all you have to do is call the police and report an assault. Im betting if the police come around enough they will be afraid to hit you.

Talk to a school counsellor and see what they can do to help you.